Properly planning for marriage is crucial. Some engaged couples spend more time planning the wedding. I encourage them to spend lots of time on self-assessment and introspection before saying I Do by discussing my Do I questions in 7 areas: spiritual, emotional, friendship, physical, financial, family and fun.
Sample questions:
Do I trust God to choose my mate?
Do I have unresolved emotional trauma?
Do I affirm and compliment my mate often?
Do I know that dating in marriage is essential and must be intentional and consistent?
Janice Burton, Christian Speaker and Relationship Expert (www.doithebook.com)